gillandy:

closetskeleton666:

Shoutout to people who can’t stand loud noise because of anxiety or sensory issues or chronic migraines and have to deal with people being unnecessarily loud all the time but can’t do or say anything about it because that’s “rude” and “ruining everyone’s good time”

well maybe a shoutout’s not the best idea but we appreciate the sentiment

hannahbluepanda:

OH

OHHH

I GET WHY THE DIAMONDS LEAD

Ok so when a gem is broken they die right? Well diamonds are UNBREAKABLE. So they’re basically immortal, and the most beautiful, powerful, and rare gems.

Diamonds, however, can be broken by OTHER diamonds. So the crewniverse are being cagey af about pink diamond, and we all though it was Rose for a while, due to her huge size and the broken pink diamond statue and symbol at the Sky Arena. At first I thought it was because Rose was Pink Diamond and the statue would give it away. But what if Pink Diamond is dead. What if one of the other diamonds killed her

pt. 1 What makes a gender or a sexuality valid? I believe that they all are but others (even my closest friend who is ftm) thinks most of the things on your lists aren’t real :/ I wish I knew how to tell them why these things aren’t part of “special snowflake” syndrome. My friend who is ftm sometimes even invalidates (not directly) my gender (genderfluid) & sexuality (pansexual) by saying its tumblr culture and that its used to look “special”

genderfluidsupport:

pt.2 I know the reason he feels that way is because he’s actually met people who misused the term pan, it left a bad impression on him but it hurts. I’m scared to talk to him about it because I’m worried he’ll think I’m some weak will pansy who gets offended easily.I’ve told him the reason why I call myself pan and I was very civil about it and he even seemed to agree with me. Yet he still posts/talks about it negatively. I thought he would understand since he’s ftm and demisexual but he doesn’t
I find it strange that your friend identifies as demisexual and still invalidates genderfluidity/pansexuality. Unfortunately there are tropes of people who will choose to invalidate identities simply because they have a large population on Tumblr. Put it to your friend like this: genderfluidity, pansexuality, and many other identities existed before Tumblr. Nonbinary people have always existed, Tumblr has just offered information to them and a place to express themselves. Ask them how THEY would feel if someone invalidated their identity because they “found it on tumblr.” Hopefully that’ll make them realize how hypocritical and rude they’re being.

– Amanda

pixiegal:

little things that make me fall 4 people

  • having a nickname for me (not necessarily a mushy romantic one) 
  • using my name in conversation 
  • complimenting something I’m not super fond of about myself 
  • sending me pictures of stuff that reminds you of me 
  • listening to my music
  • recommending music to me
  • picking up little phrases I use and starting to use them