hi i’m tolkien here are my ocs. i call them Elves (not elfs!!! if you call them elfs i will block you) they look like humans but they’re tall, live forever, and have pointy ears. that’s it bye
cs lewis: are you alright with constructive criticism? i dont want to sound mean
tolkien: no go ahead i want to hear it
cs lewis: they fucking suck
tolkien: thats not constructive criticism
cs lewis: here’s my OC, it’s jesus but he’s a lion tolkien: Furry cs lewis: blocked
“pugs are disgusting and shouldn’t exist and if you own one you’re abusive”
“Pugs as a breed need to be more controlled but it’s still important that the ones that exist find good homes that are able to help them through the myriad of potential medical problems that come with the breed”
some of the saddest phrases in the English language:
– but you promised
– ive never told anyone
– i can’t do it
– i tried
– i trusted you
– why did you do this to me
– why am i not good enough
– it still hurts
– i can’t keep pretending
Damn I just went through a relentless hurricane of past memories from those phrases.
I think it’s a bit sad that there’s still lingering feels of hurt, but i’m grateful for what i’ve learned from that hurt.
I’ve learned:
promises aren’t always kept
ur not alone in feeling the way that u do
ur a hell of a lot stronger than u think u are
so what if u haven’t accomplished ur goal or goals (yet), u tried and trying is a lot better than doing absolutely nothing at all
test scores and grades do not define u nor ur worth
it’s ok to not know what u want to do with ur life
whatever form u take, it’s gnna be fab
people will come and go throughout ur life (which is totally normal). Some will stick and some won’t. The ones that do are the ones to trust.
just because it’s family doesn’t mean u have to tolerate any verbal and/or physical abuse
there are some things u shouldn’t pour ur heart into
it’s ok to take things slow and go at ur own pace
ur feeling are valid, always
people will surprise u…and as much as it sucks to say it, personally from my experience it’s best to have low expectations for the sake of ur mental health and emotional well being.
babe u are always, always enough. People who make u feel otherwise can kindly fuck off.
there is nothing wrong with masturbating boo (making urself feel good is totally ok!)
some things aren’t just meant to be
cut the toxic peeps out of ur life asap (when it is safe to do so)
self love and care is a powerful thing
things will continue to hurt the more u bottle ur feelings and keep it inside
u owe ur sadness nothing
u are not a bad person for wanting to die
asking for help and getting help is totally ok and does not make u weak at all
don’t let anyone step on u or peer pressure u into doing something u don’t want to do
u won’t always feel this way
things will be ok eventually
u are loved even when it doesn’t feel that way and yes u deserve to be loved
the way that abled parents vilify their disabled children is so disgusting and I have no sympathy for any grown-ass adult who has the nerve to imply that an autistic four year old is ruining their life
lavenduers 