You know how, when you’ve let closet clutter grow for a long time, and you finally decide to start organizing it all, you discover that the more progress you make, the more clutter you find, and you realize just how much more work you’re going to have to do than you thought?
the fake it till u make it thing worked best for me. when i pretended like i was stroking my own ego i started believing the shit i was saying. everytime i had a negative thought abt myself, i replaced it with the opposite thought and i eventually belueved it idk