Author: all things grow

weavemama:

weavemama:

Melanie Martinez was just accused of rape by her ex-friend and it is absolutely horrifying. NOBODY should be defending her sick actions, I don’t care if she’s your favorite artist. I know it can be hard to accept the fact your fav did this, but the victim also gets put first. The story is way too detailed for it to be fake. Melanie Martinez is a rapist, and she needs to be held accountable.

Btw major trigger warning for sexual assault for the link. The details are horrific, but I applaud the victim for bringing this story to millions of people and thousands of diehard stans.

qwertybard:

slurhater:

seriously though bisexuality being defined as attraction to men and women is a heterosexual’s definition of bisexuality actual bisexual groups and organizations have been defining it as attraction to two or more genders or same and other genders since the nineties and plenty of nb people actually id as bi and refusing to accept how we define ourselves is so absurdly biphobic and heterosexist and jfc it’s 2014 can other queer people fucking realize and acknowledge this

The purple stripe on the bi flag is meant to represent attraction to nb genders and the bisexual manifesto published in Anything That Moves includes the lines “Do not assume that bisexuality is binary or duogamous in nature … In fact, don’t assume that there are only two genders.” That was published in 1990. It’s older than a lot of people here, including me, and older than terms like “pansexual” and “polysexual” by at least a decade. Bi history is important.