what’s totally and completely okay:
- “i identify with jasper because of what i’ve been through, but i understand that that behavior isn’t okay.”
- “i hope jasper gets a redemption arc.”
- “jasper is hurting and i want her to get help, but i don’t want that help to come from her harming someone else.”
what’s totally and completely NOT OKAY:
- “lapis deserved to be abused!”
- “MUTUAL ABUSE UWU”
- “idc what jasper does bc she’s my Big Buff Cheese Puff!!!”
- “she’s mentally ill!!! so it’s okay!!! lapis should just deal with it!!!!”
- “haha it’s okay guys, lapis and jasper are just Kinky™!!!”