wintersbarncs:

clara-the-slytherin-graduate:

moonsongtraveller:

cantwaitforcommunism:

signs you might be a lesbian:

• you feel like you could theoretically be attracted to men (you may even have fantasies about them), but in practice you never have any feelings for them
• it seems like you have to force yourself to find guys attractive, have crushes on them, etc.
• you feel grossed out by/neutral towards heterosexual romance, but not romance between women
• you couldn’t imagine yourself being in a very long-term relationship with/married to a man
• you feel like you could have a romantic relationship with a man but not a sexual relationship, or vice versa
• your attraction to men feels less real than your attraction to women, and it feels much more forced
• you’re far more certain about being attracted to women than you are about being attracted to men

so this is really helpful

• the only men you find yourself attracted to are fictional or otherwise completely unattainable (they’re popstars, for example)

• seeing a relationship b/w two women elicits a much stronger and more real emotional reaction than het relationships ever do